Facebook presently is being scrutinized due to its role in
political hacking. However, Facebook can threaten not only the health of
our collective democracy, but the health of our individual citizens.
Physical health is detrimentally impacted when we are immobile in
front of our Facebook page. Prolonged sitting can contribute to ailments,
such as hypertension, high blood sugar, and obesity. On the other hand,
using one of the now popular elevated desks that enables us to view Facebook
while standing is only a partial solution. Research has shown that
prolonged standing increases our risk for lower extremity blood clots, back and
foot pain, and high LDL cholesterol. Our bodies are not designed to be in
any static position for long. Our bodies are meant to be in dynamic
motion, stillness alternating with movement. Even during sleep, almost
all of us instinctively manage to strike the proper balance between lying still
and shifting around in bed.
Facebook also influences our mental health. Very often, a
primary viewing motivation is to check-up on our friends and other
acquaintances in order to keep score. Are they faring better than I
am? Why don't I have what they have? What are they doing? How can
they afford a new car? Mine already is too old, 5 years! They
are going to Paris, again. Last year they went to Rome. I only had
one week at a nearby lake.
The aforementioned use of Facebook reinforces in us an
outer-directed locus of control. Rather than confidently choose our own
goals and priorities, we let reference groups or "popular people" set
the agendas. When Facebook posts invade our consciousness too often, we
selectively compare ourselves to the best features of our friends'
postings. We think about every single thing that comprises each
individual friend's posted life. Then we aggregate the best features of
our composite friends' lives, as they have posted them, and find ourselves lacking.
A Facebook, outer-directed life does not only incite your jealous
longing for what you believe your friends have. Equally destructive is
that it can cause you to ignore or minimize that which you do have. You
focus too much on the "wonderful" things posted, and too little on
the costs of those wonderful things. For instance, people with the most
expensive material goods and grandest vacations must pay for them. Perhaps they
must work incessantly, and give short-shrift to family. Perhaps they use
their expensive material goods and grand vacations to fill emotional voids.
Of course, Facebook need not be all bad. You can use it in
reasonable ways that do not compromise your physical or mental health.
Friends' postings can help you find ways to enrich your life that do not depend
on competing with them, that enable you to maintain an internal locus of
control, and that allow you to be conscious of what you have, not just what you
don't have.
Be mindful that every minute spent on Facebook also is a minute
lost in alternative activities. Discipline your Facebook use. Know
when to start, and when to stop. Have alternative activities readily
available. If you take control of Facebook, you can make the site work
for you, and not against you.
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