Etymologists describe
the word “emotion” as a middle 1500s French creation meaning “a public
disturbance” with the French word itself being derived from the Latin, meaning “to
move away.” In contemporary culture, we
often speak of being “moved” by emotions.
But is it the emotion that is moving us, or is the emotion being moved
by something else?
First things
first. If your healthful lifestyle
adjustment concerns cognitive-emotional change with the emphasis on emotion,
you first must decide what truly is at issue.
People naturally simplify their emotional experience, focusing on one
element of the total gestalt or whole.
We regularly believe, for instance, that we are “depressed” and blame
that depressed feeling for the internal state that we feel at the moment. However, emotions rarely are pure; they
almost always are a mixture—a composite of feelings, thoughts, behaviors, and
physiology. What you perceive as depression,
for instance, might really be an amalgam of disappointment (emotion),
irritation (cognition), and fatigue (physiological state). Moreover, it is possible that the cognitive
and/or physiological elements are primary and the emotion is secondary. Accordingly, something that changes the
thoughts or physiology could be a cure for what you self-describe as your
depression.
So maybe you are not
being moved by your emotions after all.
Think about the context in which the depression occurs. Your environments, including the natural, fabricated,
and/or interpersonal environments primarily could be responsible for the
depressed-like thoughts, behaviors, and physiology with which you
struggle. Sometimes the source is
obvious. If you are snowed-in and have
lost power, your feelings surely are related to the natural and fabricated
environments. Or if you just had a
rip-roaring argument with your associate, the negative feelings most likely are
a consequence of that interpersonal confrontation.
On the other hand,
sometimes the source of what you regard as depressed mood is not so
apparent. You could be undermined by
covert influences. In fact, anything
that primes you negatively, either overtly or covertly, can be the reason for
your feeling depressed.
Psychologists often
study priming which means exposing persons to information of a particular type
in order to observe the information’s effects.
For instance, Katherine B. Carnelley, Lorna J. Otway, and Angela C. Rowe
(2015) presented some research subjects with primes, including priming texts,
that depicted anxious and avoidant interpersonal relationships, and other
primes that represented secure interpersonal relationships. Not surprisingly, those in the former
condition evidenced increased depressed mood and those in the latter,
less. The point, of course, is not that
the negative information incited more depression, but that the information was
presented covertly and had no direct personal relevance—that the subjects were
unaware of and their lives were not threatened by the primed information.
The implication is
clear: Your emotions may be moved by information of which you totally are
unaware. Anything from extended
conversation with depressed friends to preoccupation with depressing local or
national news could be implicated in your dysphoria. Look to your lifestyle and lifespace to
understand why you feel the way you do.
Make lifestyle adjustments to relieve what seems to be, but is not, a
purely intra-psychically determined depressed or otherwise unpleasant mood.
Reference: Carnelley, K., Otway, L., & Rowe, A.
(2015). The Effects of Attachment
Priming on Depressed and Anxious Mood.
Clinical Psychological Science, October 5. doi: 10.1177/2167702615594998.
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